Oftentimes, we let our own selfish desires and motives get in the way towards having a beautiful, yet unbreakable relationship. Many times, we let our own human natures get the best of us and ruin what is currently a good thing. Human nature is to think of oneself first. It is part of our survival instinct, however, unless you want your relationship to end and end quickly you have to not think this way. If you do, the inevitable break up will occur. Once this happens you need to change your thinking on how to get back with your ex. You have to start thinking about what the other is thinking, what the other may want and how to reach a happy conclusion for both. Show that you are interested in what they are thinking and you are willing to compromise you will be looked upon as a different person. A person that deserves a second chance.